Public Service Friendly Society supports long-time member.

Is bean thar a bheith iontach í Jane McKenna a d’oibrigh sa státseirbhís le breis agus 15 bliana – sa Roinn Comhshaoil agus sa Roinn Dlí agus Cirt. Pósta le Brendan le breis agus 25 bliain, bhí sí ina máthair do bheirt chailíní álainn, Lynn agus Laura. Tá an bheirt básaithe anois. Agus adeir Jane, "Ní théann lá thart nach smaoiním orthu agus gol ar a son."

Jane's Story

Jane’s story is one of real and deep loss – and aching sadness. But she is a remarkable woman although she would not think of herself in those terms. Jane’s father had worked in the civil service and she, with two of her brothers followed him into it. A few years later, she married local boy from Finglas East, Brendan McKenna. Jane had joined the Public Service Friendly Society but never seriously thought she would ever have cause to benefit from her membership.

Six years after they were married Jane and Brendan had their first child, Lynn. Almost nine years later, Jane was pregnant again at 39. Laura arrived on Friday evening 20th January 1995 and it was with Laura’s birth that Jane and Brendan’s difficulties began. She was born with what a doctor described to Jane as a “slight murmur on her heart”. It emerged later that she actually had a hole in her heart and narrowing of her arteries.

More Operations

It was necessary to insert a shunt, when Laura was 7 months old. This in turn caused problems, which meant she had to have a further operation some months later to remove the top lobe of one of her lungs. She survived these operations despite the weakened state. Having spent her first Christmas and first birthday in hospital (where Jane and Brendan became very familiar with the sights and sounds of Our Lady’s Hospital), Laura finally got home. A few relatively healthy years followed until her final surgery for the full repair of the hole in her heart – aged just 4 and a half.

(L-R) Lynn and Laura

“I remember when Laura first smiled at me,” says Jane “it was great – she had a mass of curly hair”. “But I remember, too, the frightening sight of her hooked up to the machines in the Intensive Care Unit in Our Lady’s Hospital” she adds.

The day of Laura’s final operation (30th August 1999) was a day Jane will never forget.

“As we sat in the hospital waiting for news of Laura’s operation, a friend who worked in the hospital thought that our older daughter Lynn didn’t look too well,” Jane says. After some tests in casualty, while they continued to wait for news of how Laura’s surgery was progressing, Jane and Brendan were given some awful news. Lynn had leukaemia.

Lynn was admitted to St. John’s (the Oncology ward) immediately, and later Jane and Brendan were called up to see Laura, who was now back in ICU, but not doing so well. Laura sadly never woke up and the decision to take her off life-support was made the following day. Laura had died and Lynn had started the long hard road of treatment for her diseases.

Initially things looked good and she even went back to school for a short time. But in April 2001, after a final relapse (she had previously relapsed in early December 2000, and then required a bone marrow transplant), she died, less than two years after her little sister. She was just 15 years old. Jane, Brendan, Lynn, family & friends shared a wonderful last three weeks with Lynn, in which she did many lovely things, and passed peacefully at home. She had amazing courage and wonderful acceptance, as her poem (written 12 days before her death) shows.


One of the ways the Public Service Friendly Society can help at moments like that is through helping financially with the unexpected costs which bereavement of a close family member often brings. And that’s what we were able to do as a small gesture of support for Jane and Brendan.

The Society got to know Jane a little better as she set out to remedy a painful gap in Ireland’s health services for parents with children who are preparing to die.

Jane is emphatic about the need for a special children’s hospice in Ireland. “There are a number of such hospices in the UK but none in Ireland” Jane says. “I saw first-hand how difficult it is in an overcrowded hospital when a child is gravely ill. A hospice would help give some privacy and other benefits to the child and very importantly their family” she adds. “It is a place of love, support and respite, and gives many choices, especially at the end”.

And so the Laura Lynn Children’s Hospice Foundation was formed and steps are well underway to build Ireland’s first such facility. “The hospice is about living; it’s about the quality of the child’s life, however short it is, and the support to the parents, for whom life can be so difficult, especially where 24hour care is required” says Jane.

The Project has moved from strength to strength, and the decision was made to merge with the Children’s Sunshine Home, where one of the four units (the Palliative Care Unit) became the LauraLynn House.

“I so appreciate the support the PSFS gave me at special moments” Jane says, and I would like to extend sincere thanks to them for their kindness, which I know helps so many. I would also like to thank my friends in the Court Services for their support to us personally and with events run to raise wonderful funds for LauraLynn”.

Lynn’s Dreams

I wish I could learn,
Like everyone else,
I wish I could swim, jump and run,
I wish different cards could have
been dealt
I wish it could be like old fun.

I wish I could grow and learn about life,
I wish I could feel well again,
I wish that there was an end to the strife,
And a new beginning instead.

But destiny’s come and it’s drawing me near,
And I know my two ANGELS are there,
With them I will have no reason for fear,
In their warm embrace and their care.

Lynn McKenna 06/04/2001